Ambush Interview

Honestly, it’s exhausting to share your story over and over again. I’m sure, many of you would agree. I usually attend funerals and one thing I always make sure of is to keep quiet instead of asking the family members who are left behind unless they open up. I know how exhausting it is as they keep on telling the same story if you know what I mean. ..

I could not remember how many times I was asked about what exactly happened to me and what the details were. That morning after the incident, every time someone would come into the office (each one has different work schedule) I was being asked and it initially helped me to open up. That included the nurses and the security group when I was interviewed to get my statement. When time came for the company doctor’s turn, I was tired. I wanted to record everything and do playback every time somebody else would ask (one reason why I blogged my story so I could just point them here at my website if they want to know the whole story). When I came home, I had to tell my family every detail. It is different if you are sharing it to someone who loves you because you know they are concerned and they really care.

I thought I’m done already in telling my story to people until yesterday afternoon. I went to visit my friend in my old apartment where I used to live (about 2 years ago). To my surprise, a group of people swarmed around me and did ambush interview! Yes, they knew about it. They live just right across the police station where the incident was reported. They were talking out loud, all at the same time, asking me questions. Some were giving their comments and opinions as if they were there and witnessed the incident. One sounded as if it was my fault! I really felt bad and wanted to freak out, cry and shout “Shut up!!!” I could feel they were just interested about the news and they really did not care about me. I just knew one person there, the one who initially greeted me. She announced it to the group that I was “the victim” and so everybody came and surrounded me.

I really wanted to cry! It didn’t feel good to be the center of a very loud discussion. If you were there, you would think there was a fight going on. Now I understand why some movie actresses freak out or cry during ambush interviews and pres cons… Yes, it’s true! Especially if they are being accused or they are being interrogated about a bad rumor. Being sensitive is what most people need to practice.